multiple orgasms

we can do it better

Before you even attempt to reach this multi-orgasmic feat, you have to stop thinking about sex as though it's a competitive sport, stop trying to make her orgasm, and stop trying all these contortionist-like positions. I know you're not going to want to read this, but you need to get in touch with your own body, mind and spirit.

I know, I know, it doesn't sound like much fun, but you have to understand that multiple orgasms won't come about just through physical stimulation -- you need to understand yourself and free your mind of all the stigmas propagated by society.

Stop placing so much emphasis on the sexualized body parts and start paying attention to every pore on your body. If you're willing to give it a shot, then you can delve into an ecstatic world with your man and enjoy orgasms like you never thought possible.

welcome to tantra

Tantra entails the ability to have total surrender. Let go of all mental, emotional and cultural conditioning, so that universal life energy can flow through your body without any effort.

"men are socialized to want sex as long as one condition is fulfilled -- physical attraction. Women are still taught to be sexually cautious until two, three or all four conditions -- attraction, respect, emotions, and intellect -- are met."

Therefore, whilst men continuously focus on physical attraction and outward prizes, things like communication, intimacy, love, and commitment remain unfulfilled. And we all know that a lack of sexual fulfillment ultimately results in powerlessness.

Tantra's objective is to help you stop looking at sex as though it only involves a penis, and start feeling from within. Once you're able to make it a total body experience, you'll wonder why no one ever informed you about this before.

Here's what you have to do...

recover your sexual supremacy

First off, you need to find the key to your true erotic self. Sounds like mumbo jumbo? Well, this connection I'm referring to will help you learn to stop placing so much emphasis on your penis and focus instead on your entire being.

This connection should not be exclusively limited to the pleasure of the senses. The highest Tantric exploration occurs when sex is used as a means to know who you are. Trust me, if you get to know yourself, pleasing your man will no longer be an issue because it will occur naturally.

Second, you need to develop a whole new relationship with your penis. No, I don't mean renaming him and choking him more often. Because guys usually masturbate in a very mechanical way (with speed and force), this leads to the loss of endearment toward more subtle and soft sensations.

If your sexual experiences have been limited strictly to your genital area, then it's going to take a lot of practice if you want to reach multiples. But as well, keep in mind that that shouldn't be your ultimate goal. If you focus just on that, then you're missing the point of Tantric sex altogether.

orgasm without ejaculation

I know you're used to associating orgasm with ejaculation. And maybe lovemaking has become a performance and race to orgasm. But the last thing that sex should be is a routine to release tension.

Separate parts of the nervous system activate orgasm and ejaculation. Yes, they usually occur simultaneously, but they can both be experienced independent of each other. For men, this can mean that prolonged and multiple orgasms are very possible without ejaculation (finally!).

With Tantra, men will have the ability to maintain a very heightened level of arousal with frequent climaxes and pleasures unmatched.

how can I reach multiples?

Here are a few things that will get you started, but remember that it will take lots of practice before you are truly able to reach your desired acme.